Beyond 'Hello': 5 Meaningful Conversation Starters

You've matched with someone interesting—congratulations! Now comes the first conversation. Instead of a simple "hello" or "how are you?", try asking questions that open the door to a deeper connection. Here are five ideas.

1. "What does your faith journey look like, and what role does it play in your daily life?" This question goes straight to the heart of what matters. It allows you to understand their relationship with God beyond just a label.

2. "What are some of the most important values your family has passed down to you?" In our culture, family is central. This question honors that and helps you understand the foundation they come from and what they hold dear.

3. "Beyond your profession, what are you truly passionate about or feel called to do?" This helps you see what truly makes them come alive. It reveals their character, their dreams, and what motivates them.

4. "Tell me a bit about your church community." This question gives you insight into their community life and how they engage with other believers, which is a key part of a shared life in Christ.

5. "What is a book or a Bible verse that has really impacted you recently?" This is a great way to learn what God is teaching them and what is on their mind and heart. It’s both personal and spiritually revealing.

Remember, the goal of a first conversation is not to interview someone, but to connect. Be curious, be a good listener, and be yourself!